You know the best way to get what you want is to ask for it. You also know that the best way to avoid getting what you don’t want is to say “NO”. Then why are these two simple things … Continue reading
December 29, 2013
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Lies we tell ourselves about our relationships
I have spent most of my adult life where you are. I understand the confusion, the heartbreak and the daily chaos you live with. I have told myself the same things that you tell yourself. I have rationalized and justified the … Continue reading
January 2, 2013
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Boundaries and people pleasing
You know the best way to get what you want is to ask for it. You also know that the best way to avoid getting what you don’t want is to say “NO”. Then why are these two simple things … Continue reading
Who’s rainbow are you chasing?
“A successful life is one that is lived through understanding and pursuing one’s own path, not chasing after the dreams of others.” ~Chin-Ning Chu You have heard of the mid-life crisis, or people taking time to “find themselves”. What is … Continue reading
November 8, 2011
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When apologies are only words
All relationships have their ups and downs. The best way to handle problems is to communicate with your partner. However, sometimes it isn’t easy to express yourself, especially when you try to bring up a problem and your partner: Gives you … Continue reading